What are the trends in dating nowadays? Surely everyone has heard that girls are more likely to choose "bad" boys. Moreover, the likelihood that they reciprocate with the girls is almost reduced to zero. Why is this happening? What are the reasons for choosing them?

The "bad" guys are sincere

Why girls are not attracted to cute guys? They believe that such men seem good only because they pretend to be. Guys impersonate society to those who are not really, trying to seem better and more successful.

Women know that good guys try to be polite and well-mannered just to attract attention. That is why girls consider such men to be genuine and insincere. For them, it is better when a person is visible immediately and through and through. If you are not shy to show your character, then it is what it really is.

The presence of self-esteem in the "bad" guys

While the good guys take great care, they have no self-esteem. Women want a man who respects himself and cares about his needs, and does not blindly do everything, if only his beloved noticed and loved him.

The partner must have self-esteem. For girls, this is one of the main factors in choosing a man. They will be able to introduce him to the outside world only if the guy does not lose his identity.

No one will look at those who are ready to cancel all their plans in order to bring the girl home from work. A man should have an opinion and a solid word. It is not necessary to disrupt all business meetings for the sake of your sweetheart. She would have understood you and drove home on her own.

The unpredictability of the “bad” guys

Good guys are always so cute, they open doors, give flowers and toys, buy chocolates, meet every day after work, they’re called to the movies. At first, maybe this seems unusual. But the time comes when all the actions of the good guys become predictable. And you get tired that you are met every day, regular restaurants and cinema.

Every girl loves to worry, wait for something, worry and think about whether they will give her flowers, whether they will bring her home or not. Women want unpredictability in relationships. That is why they choose brutals who offer something new every day, often changing tactics.

The choice of "bad" guys in women in genes

This choice is really associated with the genes of all women. They fall in love more often with those who commit bad deeds. They are crazy about those who have their own character, who do not mind showing emotions, aggression, anger, who can use foul language. It is in the blood of women. They like self-confident men with an inner core.

Women, agreeing to relationships with the “bad” guys, want to change them

Women believe that dating a brutal man is at least interesting. They have a goal - to change a person for the better, to wean them from fighting, drinking, swearing, smoking, teaching to control emotions and to reconcile. They really can use the relationship as an excuse, although in reality they want to change the “bad” men and their habits for the better.

Cute guys are weak

Yes, good guys give a lot of love and gifts, but women do not need weak men. A man must not only be able to protect himself, but also be strong enough to protect the woman who meets with him.

In most cases, cute guys do not have an attractive physical form, while the “bad” ones prefer to go to the gym and monitor their nutrition.

Women don't like the good guys' big words

How does a “good” man behave trying to lure his chosen one? He promises to bring literally everything to her feet, to be always by her side, to always protect, love and cherish until the end of his life. Most women, of course, understand that all these words are false. Good guys just try to stand out from the brutals who don’t like words that lead to obligations.

The price of nice words from the "bad" guys rises at times

Good guys are constantly trying to come up with new compliments. They always pay attention to the little things, to any change in their chosen one. These guys often resort to lies. And what else should they do if nothing really changes in the girl? So they have to admire your new hair color several times.

Many women don't like being praised all the time. Yes, they naturally crave complements, but they must come from the right person, and they should be in moderation. If a good guy is constantly showering a girl with pleasant words, she will probably think that they are flattering or lying.

Often from the "bad" guys you will not get compliments. But as soon as a woman hears them, she breaks out in a smile, and her heart begins to beat more often. That’s why girls tend to choose “bad” men, because the price of pleasant words is increasing.

The intimate side of the relationship

Intimacy is one of the main factors in every relationship, and women want to spend time in bed with benefit. It is believed that good guys can only give tenderness in bed, while the “bad” ones can convey the whole spectrum of emotions not through the word, but through action.

The "bad" guys are sexy

Brutal guys drive every woman crazy with their abs and strong arms. They possess perfect bodies, since they care about their figure. They look very sexy, which means they know how to please a woman when it comes to bed.

In addition, most girls never have a desire for intimacy if they meet nice guys.

Good guys are not adorable

Of course, it’s not good to generalize people, but the fact is that good guys are not as charming as bad guys. Many brutals can be called macho. And it is precisely this characteristic that all the nice guys lack.

Women simply do not believe that good guys are capable of anything, except for pleasant words, tenderness and romance.

Good guys don't look strong

Good guys are far from the strongest. They don’t attend gyms (and perhaps they’ve never even been there in their life). They have their own life priorities in the first place. So cute guys look pretty frail. They often even avoid fights, trying to solve the situation with words (in some situations, the “bad” guys would also need this skill).

Good guys are obsessed

Good guys can easily become obsessed and start to pursue their goal. And often they don’t understand when to stop. This is very annoying to every person, not just girls.

The “bad” boys do not lack women, and they perfectly understand when a woman should leave.

Brutal guys are presentable

Well, yes, good guys dress normally, but who would you rather call by inviting them to a nightclub? The "bad" guy, right? Because being with a brutal in a nightclub is the best you can think of. The atmosphere will bring you as close as you are both ready.

Brutal guys kiss well

The “bad” guys have a lot of experience in relationships, which means they know a lot about kisses. They know exactly how to leave a lot of positive emotions from such intimacy.

Brutals own a kiss technique of 120%, and they know exactly how to please their girlfriend. While the good guys practically do not leave any emotions after their kiss.

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