One of the most traditional forms of manifestation of love is a kiss. He takes second place after a hug among ways to express his feelings using body language. Of particular strength is the so-called "kiss kiss." Passion, a flurry of emotions, the highest degree of acceptance of a person - this is what this intimate action embodies, signifying the closeness of two loving people.

How to learn to kiss correctly

The basic principles of a successful kiss are simple and understandable.

  1. The main stage is preparation. To make a lasting impression on your partner, you need to take care of the beauty and softness of the lips. Moisturize them with hygienic lipstick or a special balm, peel with brown sugar. And do not forget to relax your lips and open your mouth during the process itself.
  2. The balance between seduction and friendliness. Often, even without touching each other, we can catch the invisible vibes emanating from a person. And his facial expressions and gestures will speak for themselves. Therefore, it is important to adhere to neutral behavior in communication, not being pinched, but also not showing excessive obsession. A light flirtation, an exchange of friendly smiles, a promising half-smile will become the best "prelude" of a magic passionate kiss.
  3. Touch that excites the blood. Do not forget about the extraordinary power of fleeting touches. A light slide on the arm and a slightly audible whisper in the ear evoke emotions and a desire to touch the partner’s lips better than the strongest hugs.
  4. Eye contact with lips. Yes, it is important to look not only in the eyes, but also in the direction of the lover's mouth. At the same time, a friendly, sincere smile will tell him about your intentions.
  5. Maximum proximity.Relax, bow your head and catch his eye. If you succeeded in doing this movement naturally and unobtrusively, then you can congratulate yourself on your first victory.
  6. Alternating tactics. Below we will consider the technique of the kiss itself, but for now it is important to remember the main rule - everything is good in moderation. If at the beginning of the rapprochement the partner took the initiative and proceeded to active actions, then at this moment it is worth being malleable. But not for long. After some time, the leading role should be transferred to another participant in the process. Such a “castling” will further infuse feelings and hold passion at the proper level.
  7. Where to put your hands? Everything is simple here - the guys gently wrap their beloved around the waist and gently stroke the back, and the girls put their fingers into her lover's hair or put them on her shoulders and neck.

Now consider what exactly the kiss of two loving people can be.

Kinds of Kisses

Three characteristic types of kisses are known in which it is worth practicing a lover.

  • gentle - you need to lightly touch the partner’s upper lip, squeeze your mouth, as if sucking it, and then move a few centimeters. At the same moment, you can look at the chosen one to understand whether it is worth continuing. If an emotional response is received, then a touch on the lower lip follows in compliance with the same principle of action;
  • French is a kind of sensual kiss involving a tongue caressing the entire oral cavity, tongue and lips;
  • platonic - a form of manifestation of affection. In such a friendly gesture there should not even be a hint of romance or passion. A similar kiss is accompanied by a loud and short “smack” sound. With lips, you can touch the cheek, forehead or mouth of the partner. In any case, the contact will be short. If it drags on, then this is no longer a platonic manifestation of feelings.

These are three shades of emotional attachment. Of course, the highest boiling point is observed with a French kiss.

Technique of execution, phased schemes

There is no universal instruction for a kiss. It all depends on the partners, their preferences, temperaments and depth of feelings. However, it’s still worth studying some of the steps and rules that help you navigate the process itself. Especially at the very beginning.

Tongue sucking

This type of mutual tenderness often accompanies the rapid development of relations and the transition to another level of intimacy. Therefore, shyness, modesty and fear are no longer here. Sensitive and caring partner, before kissing the girl passionately, she will try to maximize her emancipation and win over to her. And then, as they say, a matter of technology.

  1. Often, a kiss with a tongue sucked up is preceded by an ordinary slow kiss without the tongue.
  2. After the first stage, you should slightly open your mouth, responding to the actions of the partner.
  3. Then you can play with the tip of your tongue, teasing your lover and warming up his interest.
  4. Do not try to stick your tongue as deep as possible, limiting yourself to the lips, mouth and tip of the chosen one's tongue.
  5. Such a kiss lasts differently, depending on the mood and desire of the participants in the action.
  6. After its completion, you do not need to hastily distance yourself from your partner. This may be misinterpreted. You need to slowly return the tongue to its place and smile at your boyfriend, demonstrating that you liked the kiss, and you are ready to continue it.

Over time, this kind of affection will begin to bring more pleasure due to the proximity and understanding of each other's desires.

No language

This kind of kiss is often confused with the French because of its passion and pressure. However, only lips participate in it, which, however, does not deprive him of eroticism.

  1. For starters, it’s good to calm down.
  2. Lips should be relaxed, mouth half open.
  3. It is better to cover your eyes slightly.
  4. You should alternately touch either the upper or lower lip of the partner and suck it, gently closing the lips.
  5. It is important to constantly monitor the reaction of the chosen one, sensitively reacting to the slightest change in behavior.Rapid breathing indicates that he enjoys the process. If a lover does not show a pronounced reaction, perhaps he does not like something.
  6. Do not stop and check with your partner about his feelings. This will only bring down the mood. You can try to change tactics without interrupting the process itself.

This kind of kiss is considered to be the culmination of a romantic relationship.

Therefore, it should be treated with special care and seriousness.

What can not be done with a kiss

A few tips on what mistakes to avoid while kissing will save you from a possible failure.

  • to be non-initiative. Men love active women who are not shy of their desires and feelings. But excessive modesty may not appeal to everyone. Especially when it comes to such an important intimate process as a kiss. Therefore, it is worthwhile to show more emotions and respond to affection, trusting your lover as much as possible;
  • kissing with open eyes. Everything is clear here and so. Being in a fit of passion, few people think about expressing their own faces. In this regard, it is more than strange during a kiss to notice how the partner looks directly into your eyes;
  • to be intrusive. In a period of romantic relationships, it’s normal to strive to spend more time together. However, there is a limit to everything. Do not catch any moment to kiss or hug a lover;
  • forget about oral hygiene. This mistake can be fatal. It is unlikely that anyone will want to kiss a person who smells of cigarettes or (oh, horror!) Garlic;
  • lick his face, ignoring the main goal. To enhance the ardor of passion, you can gently lick or kiss the ear, nose or even the eyes of a lover. But to turn this action into an endless licking and sucking of all parts of his face, never reaching the mouth, is at least strange.

Lighting a real passion with one kiss is pretty easy. The main thing is to feel sincere feelings for your chosen one, follow our advice and do not forget about your own desires. Love and be loved!

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