A kiss with the tongue is one of the symbols of intimacy, tender feelings. He became popular about 70 years ago. Now it is one of the favorite caresses of millions of people.

What is a deep kiss

A deep kiss is also called French, love or romantic. The French love to call him a kiss of the soul. With a deep kiss, partners always touch their tongues, they caress them inside the mouth. And sometimes they kiss, sticking out their tongues. In this case, the lips and the entire oral cavity are stimulated, where there are very sensitive areas. Such caresses can last a long time, unlike other types of kiss.

The French kiss got its name in the 19th century among the British. France has always been considered a country of love, so a kiss resembling oral sex and oral sex was named after her. And the kiss spread around the planet in the 60s, thanks to the films.

Deep kisses are considered an energy source for the whole body.

Various organs and systems are activated:

  • central nervous system;
  • reproductive system;
  • pancreas.

Thanks to the hormone oxytocin, a kissing person feels happiness, euphoria. A passionate kiss on the lips with the tongue uplifting, helps to combat stress.

Preparing for a passionate and tender kiss

Sometimes kisses happen spontaneously, but sometimes you can carefully prepare.

Preparation includes 3 stages:

  1. Training. Learn techniques, rehearse.
  2. Hygienic. Toothbrush with toothpaste brush tongue, teeth, oral cavity. You can use floss, rinse and even chewing gum.If bad breath emanates constantly, you should visit a gastroenterologist. The skin of the lips becomes velvet, thanks to special scrubs, creams, moisturizing lipstick.
  3. Psychological. The main thing in a kiss is not technique, but feelings, attraction. If you surrender to the feelings, act intuitively, calmly, slowly, even a technically imperfect kiss will bring pleasure to partners. Girls have some advantage in this: shyness, excitement, inexperience of a partner are liked by many guys.

In the presence of a strong mutual desire, "impulse" these items are not required. You should always take care of hygiene.

Scheme and instruction for beginners

In the deep kiss technique, only one prerequisite is that the languages ​​should be in contact. How exactly this will happen, at what pace, with what movements - depends on the desire of partners.

Usually the intensity of caresses gradually increases. The first touches with lips and tongues are light, gentle, slow. With the tip of the tongue, examine the partner's oral cavity. Gradually, penetration becomes more energetic, deeper. Languages ​​intertwine, rub against each other.

The following types of kisses are popular around the world:

  • royal - tongue touch the teeth, hold on them;
  • mill - rotate the tongue in the oral cavity;
  • refined - penetration is very deep, tongue caresses the palate of the partner;
  • stinging - the tongue is injected sharply, sucking the partner’s lower lip.

Relaxing, experimenting, lovers come up with new techniques.

The French kiss technique involves the following steps:

  1. You can hint at a kiss by looking in the eyes and opening your mouth slightly. A man’s smile, his affectionate gaze, parted lips signal a reciprocal desire.
  2. Lips relax, slightly stretch, gently leaning toward the person. Without sudden movements, gently pull him to him. After a short pause in front of the person’s lips, they gently touch his lips with his lips.
  3. After the first touch with your lips, you can close your eyes in order to "immerse yourself" in the sensations.
  4. Alternately suck on the upper lip, then the lower. After caressing the lips, they penetrate the partner's mouth.
  5. The main stage: relax, give in to emotions, embody their desires, fantasies. Do not forget to take care of a partner, reacting to his movements, adapting to his pace.
  6. You can interrupt a kiss several times with a look into your partner’s eyes, in gentle words. This enhances the sensuality of the kiss.

All this information does not need to be “kept in mind” all the time. Enough natural reverent attitude to a person, respect for his desires.

Practical tips for girls and boys

You can consider some of the secrets of a successful kiss, which have proven effective:

  1. A deep kiss is not for nothing called a kiss of the soul. Most often, this technique is used with the person you like.
  2. It is impossible to fully learn to kiss without a partner. You can try the simplest movements with a pickled tomato. They “stick” to the tomato with their lips and begin to move their tongue.
  3. Before a kiss, moisturize your lips with water, hygienic lipstick or saliva (licking them).
  4. You can "flavor" the oral cavity with fruits, ice cream, lemonade, coffee, tea. Sometimes partners like to feel light smacks of these products during a kiss.
  5. Before caresses, it is important to establish eye contact. This brings together, "turns" partners.
  6. You can hug a partner, gently hold on the shoulders, back.
  7. Kissing in French, intuitively breathe through the nose. Therefore, the kiss does not stop, it can take a very long time.
  8. Periodically swallow saliva, preventing its accumulation. But this usually happens by itself.
  9. Many girls like initiative, but the accuracy of guys.

A deep kiss is considered quite complicated. But, as a rule, everything happens naturally, according to the own rules of two people.

What you should not do while kissing

Do not be aggressive, be selfish.

Namely:

  • pounce on the partner’s lips immediately, without preparation;
  • bite the partner’s lips too much;
  • make sharp movements.

To kiss correctly, you should also consider that many do not like:

  • too much saliva;
  • partner passivity;
  • tense or completely relaxed, “cottony” lips;
  • closed teeth, clenched jaws;
  • wide open mouth.

If before the contact people managed to get closer, get carried away by each other, the kiss will be just as pleasant.

It is believed that without intimate deep kisses, real intimacy is impossible. No wonder they say that kisses do not lie.