What is the Aries-Virgo man-woman union? How much can two opposite signs be mutually attracted and complement each other? The compatibility of the passionate Aries and the restrained woman Virgo will be discussed in this article.
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General characteristics of the zodiac signs
Let's say right away: compatibility here is more average than good. In a pair of men Aries-woman Virgo love and marriage are possible by no more than 70 percent. Which in itself is not so bad, given that he is a representative of the fire element, and she is a pronounced earth sign.
To understand the features of their union, you need to know the features of each of the signs.
So, the Aries man is a characteristic:
- vigorous;
- impatient and passionate;
- straightforward and straightforward;
- the absolute leader in everything, including family relationships;
- obsessed with finding constant ideas and new plans;
- self-centered and somewhat self-centered, while not unremarkable, although hot-tempered.
But what a Virgo woman represents - the characteristic of this sign is as follows:
- shy;
- restrained;
- careful and secretive;
- pedantic, while not allowing any deviation from the established order itself;
- neat to self-forgetfulness, loves perfect cleanliness and order around. She wants everything everywhere to be the way she is used to it;
- in his pursuit of order, he can reach the limits of everything else, but he is such a person - everything should be smooth, beautiful and symmetrical for her.
Aries man and Virgo woman: compatibility
The first impression that an ardent and impatient Aries will receive will be simply fantastic: it will face its complete opposite, which is so restrained and shy that Aries will be extremely interested. However, further differences will begin to manifest themselves more and more and make themselves known.
So, an impulsive and active Aries makes decisions quickly, while a woman Virgo needs a lot of time to open up to him.
A leader by nature, Aries does not tolerate his partner showing the choosiness or obstinacy that are characteristic of the Virgin. And yet, if desired, both can make certain compromises, which gives their relationship a chance to develop into more durable and stable.
In a love relationship
The man’s initial impression of her is this: he believes that he met the girl of his dreams. After all, she is calm, can behave with restraint, accuracy and cleanliness, and Aries just lacks balance, constancy, and the order on the table and in the apartment.
She sees in him a sociable, bold, self-confident man who is her exact opposite, but it is so attractive. The mysterious woman Virgo attracts Aries with her mystery, and he just looks like the hero of her dreams.
Aries and Virgo in a love relationship do not immediately show themselves. With the development of relations, the difference in characters appears so often that Virgo has to admit: before her, as she believes, is a person who does everything and feels superficially, not taking anything seriously. Although it is certainly responsible and more practical.
From his point of view, his beloved Virgo is too fixated on trifles, and therefore constantly solves insignificant and insignificant problems. So everyone thinks after some time dating. And sometimes it seems to everyone that their meeting has no prospects.
However, if you take a sober look at the situation, then both, if desired, will easily find in their soul mate what they lack in themselves. Virgo needs confidence, and Aries needs judiciousness and calmness of Virgo. Only by becoming more patient, Aries will understand that Virgo sees one step further than him and maybe something that he does not know about. Only by accepting the breadth of Aries, Virgo, finally, will become his soul mate and assistant in great accomplishments.
Married
But then the couple got to the marriage. And here exactly what Aries valued most at the first acquaintance in Virgo can cause them to break.
She is a pronounced homebody, she wants to be together and watch TV. And she sincerely does not understand why he is eager for friends, acquaintances, of whom he has hundreds, and strives to escape from such a “licked”, clean house. After all, for her to relax is to have an unhurried quiet hobby, to watch TV.
And Aries thinks differently. Next to him there is always a mess, vanity and chaos, which she can not accept in any way. With her list of rules, she is able to bring anyone, and even more so Aries. And therefore, if he escapes from his native walls to the street, to friends, then for her such an escape is no less than a vile betrayal, and for him a normal existence.
It is also important that she is not averse to “walking on it” criticizing his imperfections, which Aries is terribly disliked. And also his impulsiveness and desire to romanticize everything suddenly stumble upon her earthliness and monotony in life. In this pair, someone must retreat. If there is no one who yields first, then a gap is inevitable.
However, if there is an agreement on what its boundaries of freedom are and its limitations in unnecessary rules, they can quite tolerably live and even enrich each other. Aries married to Virgo becomes more calm and reasonable. For her, marriage is a chance to become more interesting in every sense, recharged with the energy of Aries.
In friendship
Friendly relations, and especially fruitful workers in this union, are rather fragile. The thing is that Aries is a leader in essence, and Virgo does not want to obey. But their style of action is different.He is strong-willed and decisive, but at the same time he quickly cools down and loses interest in the object of recent hobby. She is more balanced, slow, and therefore it is difficult for her to work like Aries, that is, emergency, for wear and tear. Therefore, it is difficult to predict any particularly friendly ties that may arise here.
In sex
Everything in this pair is initially very attractive, because the dissimilarity attracts and captivates. Passion accompanies every date, and here the compatibility horoscope is at first very positive. But exactly to the point when it comes to bed relationships. Sex is difficult because they are very different, including in carnal love. The virgin is secretive and little emotional, but in Aries the volcano of passions is bubbling, which never finds a way out of it. This is a fairly common problem of such a pair. Only love and patience can save the situation.
Psychological compatibility
Psychological conflicts in this pair are not only possible, but also due to the difference in characters. They will certainly arise as a way out of psychological stress that both will experience. As mentioned above, the compatibility of the zodiac signs of two different elements is small, and the negative qualities of Aries (impulsiveness, sharpness, temper) in the presence of Virgo will only double. Outwardly restrained and meek Virgo, who is seemingly gentle and sensitive, in fact, can be a powerful irritant for a man, and she can be guilty of conflicts no less than he is.
So only a policy of containment on both sides can lead to a more or less positive and lasting alliance.
Positive and negative sides of the union
In this love, full of hidden contradictions and conflicts, there are, of course, positive aspects for both of the parties:
- Aries, under the influence of the Virgo, becomes more calm and balanced;
- A leader by nature, he gives part of his authority to his wife so that the wiser and more mature Virgo can channel his indefatigable energy into a better direction;
- A virgin can be an ideal wife — faithful, faithful, the idea of treason disgusts her, and her husband cannot but appreciate this;
- The ability of Virgo to finish the work begun to the end is different from the Aries habit of quitting what was started.
Alas, there are also many shortcomings. First of all, this is the difference in temperament, speed of decision-making and a different share of responsibility. All together, it can be argued that the union of the Aries man with the Virgo woman will not be cloudless and peaceful in any way. We need to work on it
How a Aries man to conquer a Virgo woman
In order to conquer the heart of Virgo for a long time, Aries man must be more tactful, attentive, patient than he is in ordinary life. Courtships do not tolerate fuss, and at the same time they should be in accordance with her moods, and not be dictated only by his ideas about how to capture the girl's attention.
A pleasant and tidy young man will certainly attract attention, because she hates sloppiness. Slowness is the quality that a woman of this sign will certainly appreciate. Therefore, it is better slowly than quickly - this applies to courtship, and confession, and sexual relations in the future.
Listening is another requirement of this woman. And Aries, as a rule, speak perfectly. This is not bad if the conversation is meaningful and intellectual, because the Virgo appreciate an intellectually developed interlocutor. To be interesting to her and to make it clear that she needs you is the path to success with this smart and feminine young lady.
