Sexual life in marriage does not always remain at one high level. Mutual attraction decreases over the years, serious problems in bed may even appear. It is at this stage that the spouses begin to think about how to diversify sex, and also make it no less vivid, passionate, enjoyable than at the very beginning of the relationship.
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Ways to diversify intimate life
Today, there are many ways to diversify your own intimate life. Both men and women can add fire to the matrimonial bed. But it is best when the couple act together.
Sex toys
To diversify sex with her husband, you can go to the nearest sex shop and purchase original intimate toys. It is interesting that, according to surveys, every third couple today uses such accessories in family life. It’s just not customary to talk about this in society.
Sex toys have their pros and cons. To begin with, it's worth talking about the advantages:
- goods from a sex shop allow you to experience completely new pleasant sensations, open unexplored erogenous zones;
- discussed toys reduce the percentage of marital names, because partners begin to miss the variety and at home;
- when using such accessories, lovers become much closer to each other;
- Sexual toys help to relax, become more relaxed and courageous.
It is very important to purchase only high-quality products from a sex shop with all the necessary documents. Chinese cheap fakes can cause serious harm to men's and women's health.
Among the shortcomings of erotic toys, you need to highlight:
- the prohibition of the use of some of their options for certain diseases in men and girls;
- the likelihood of allergies after their use.
If a person has any serious diseases related to the genitourinary system, then before using most toys you will have to consult a doctor.
It is very important to acquire sex toys only after talking with a partner and his consent to their use. Do not think that such accessories are exclusively dildos. Among intimate toys, you can choose other interesting options: handcuffs for role-playing games, supplements for erotic massage, edible sweet underwear, nozzles to stimulate additional erogenous zones, etc.
When used correctly, such products will allow partners to fully reveal their sexuality, to know themselves, to expand the boundaries of pleasure. They will help to add variety to intimate life.
Water games
You can achieve diversity in sex with the help of water games. Of course, for this it is not at all necessary to go to the lake and embarrass others with their intimate experiments.
Similar games can be organized in your own bathroom. Warm water will allow you to get new pleasant sensations, and the shower is the best assistant in the fight for the female clitoral orgasm. In addition, the bathroom can be secluded when the couple has children. In this small space you can even organize a very romantic atmosphere, for example, light candles and incense sticks, and scatter rose petals.
Unusual places
Representatives of the stronger sex in order to diversify sex with his wife most often choose it in an unusual place. Psychologists note that sexual intercourse between spouses, which are repeated day after day in the same bed, in the same room, can annoy even the most passionate couple who have no problems with libido. What can we say about the husband and wife, tired of everyday difficulties, living together for many years.
Changing the place for sex in their case may be the easiest way to diversify your sex life. It is not necessary to choose a street or a fitting room for an intimate experiment. It is enough to send the children to grandmother and rent a beautiful hotel room for a day. It’s great if it will be supplemented with a jacuzzi and other elements indispensable for a romantic evening. It is worth taking light snacks consisting of aphrodisiac products, champagne, and your favorite music to your room. But any problems and concerns should be left behind his doors. In this case, an unforgettable night of love and the return of former passion to spouses are guaranteed.
An even more effective option would be a joint vacation in another country. It is very important to go on vacation only together.
Well, the daredevils can even try to know each other in the booths for changing clothes, on the last rows in cinemas or other similar places. But it is important to remember that for such feats it is quite possible to be in the police department.
In the animal world
You can make your sex games even more interesting and vibrant with the help of appropriate costumes. In modern erotic stores, it will be possible to find very interesting options in the form of animals, for example, an outfit of a sexual cat, a tigress, a panther.
Having dressed in such a suit, the girl herself can begin the process of seducing her partner. It will be enough to offer him to pet the affectionate kitty or to tame the recalcitrant wild panther.
Sexy outfit
For dressing during passionate marital sex, you can choose not only animal costumes, but also a variety of others. Erotic outfits on the subject of various professions are especially popular among visitors to a sex shop.
It is possible that a man has long dreamed of being punished by a strict teacher with a pointer and in a short dress, and the girl does not mind paying the police in kind for her wrongdoing. Of course, you can make any interesting costumes for sex games yourself, but it’s much easier to buy ready-made ones in themed stores.
Role-playing games
Role-playing games will make it possible to turn fulfillment of marital duties into a bright passionate process. The costumes described above will come in handy for them. It’s not enough just to put on an outfit. For a complete immersion in the situation, it is worthwhile to come up with a fascinating exciting story.
For example, a man can call a nurse in a short sexy robe and white stockings in advance. He will have to complain about an incomprehensible malaise, and the health worker who came to the call will personally look for places that require special attention and pleasant treatment.
Such a plot can be repeated on any topic: with a suit of a plumber, a geisha, a policeman, a teacher, a schoolgirl, etc. To understand which outfits to acquire, you just need to talk about your most vivid sexual fantasies.
It should be noted that at first, partners who have never before practiced sex games will probably laugh. Perhaps even a couple of games will end with mutual laughter. But over time, the situation will change. Partners will gradually cease to be shy, will be able to relax and get real pleasure from their sexual games.
Fanta
Sexual forfeits is one of the most popular sexual games among lovers. After all, this is a great way to jokingly tell your partner about the most cherished secret erotic desires.
Often, problems in the intimacy appear not only over the years, but also because the man and woman are not open enough to each other. In the head they scroll through an exciting scene thousands of times, but do not dare to suggest the second half to repeat it in reality.
Realize the cherished fantasies will help just the game under discussion. To do this, take a large can or hat and a few pieces of paper. In the last lovers write down their sexual desires.
Further, all the resulting notes are stacked in a box or hat and mixed. In the evening before sexual games you need to get one piece of paper from a man and a woman. For convenience, you can make them in different colors. If partners are embarrassed to read aloud and discuss each other's wishes, they can simply study the pulled note to themselves in advance. And then take it as a guide to action.
By the way, it’s even easier to organize the game with the help of ready-made forfeits. They are also sold in sex shops. This is a ready-made "board" game, with assignments for partners printed on bright cards.
Erotic films
When a couple lives together for a long time in marriage, for sure, watching movies together becomes a frequent way to spend an evening. To add variety to the matrimonial bed, instead of the usual series and popular films, it is worth including erotic paintings. Viewing them together will surely set the lovers on the right wave and light a fire between them.
Of course, you should go to bed to watch erotica together with your head free from problems and worries. If a woman and a man in the process will calculate what the salary will be at the end of the month or make a report, then it is unlikely to relax and tune in to a sexual wave.
After watching the movie, you can continue to experiment: try new poses, try on erotic outfits, share cherished fantasies with each other. In order to have time to fully enjoy sexual pleasures, it is very important to go to bed not at two in the morning after completing all household chores, but much earlier, otherwise there simply will not be any energy left for pleasure.
There are many interesting ways to diversify sexual life. Which one to choose, each person decides for himself, given his own desires and preferences in bed.
