What needs to be done to get the man of your dreams? 15 tricks for girls

We read hundreds of articles about what men find attractive in women and how they should win the hearts of their chosen ones, since we are always interested in how guys influence us. Now it's time to learn what really attracts men. So, here are 15 things that women can do in order to become more attractive to their partners. You will surely charm anyone!

1. Watch your figure

Obviously, right? But it really works. Although in our time you can’t guess the tastes of men, most people still like fit figures. In addition, many women are jealous of thin girls. Since there has long been a stereotype that thinness is the embodiment of female beauty.

It should be noted that there is no need to be led to the requirements that the fashion dictates today. If you feel great in your body, it does not matter how much you weigh. If you love yourself, are cheerful and confident in yourself, then you can definitely win the heart of the man you need, regardless of your kilograms and parameters.

Only rely on your feelings and desires. No need to blindly follow public opinion.You must have your own view of things and not change it under any circumstances.

2. Become independent

Men are no longer attracted to weak personalities (unless, of course, they are tyrants and dictators who adore psychological violence), they are delighted precisely by strong women who are able to do housework and succeed at work. And if she still positions herself as an independent self-confident woman, she has no price in male society.

Many colleagues fall for just such girls in the team. Since they are attracted to the core in women, self-confidence, assertiveness, determination and ambitiousness. If a girl doesn’t let everyone close to herself, it becomes interesting for young people to achieve their “goal”. That is why it is better to become and show yourself independent in the circle of your communication. Believe me, you will immediately begin to fend off offers to meet and take a walk.

Why do men like independent women more? They just don't want you to be a financial burden for them. Guys want to be with a woman who does not need to be brought up and adjusted for themselves.

3. You need to have femininity

This is pretty obvious. Girls must be feminine, so they are different from men. After all, the latter want affection, attention, love, they want a pretty girl in front of them sitting in a dress, in high heels, with beautiful curls and light make-up.

Although it is not necessary to wear heels and skirts to remain feminine. Why not just forget about the good breeding, manners, shyness and modesty in the presentation? If we talk about the appearance, you can wear at least sneakers with jeans. But if you pick up beautiful accessories for your image and make the appropriate hairstyle, you, of course, will look the way men expect.

Do not be afraid to laugh on dates, to show your inner child. For example, if you like toys or cats, feel free to tell your partner about your weaknesses. They consider it sweet (and at the same time they will know what to give you).

4. Be submissive to a partner

Obviously, many people believe that there is a negative connotation behind this. By humility they mean an attempt to please a partner in absolutely everything and always. But we hasten to dissuade you. Humility is not always a sacrifice.

If a girl is submissive, this means that she agrees to everything that she really likes and wants. You should not accept those proposals that seem uncomfortable or strange to you. This is not about slavery. You should not make sacrifices.

What is it for? So that your man understands that you care enough about him and support his way of thinking. Thus, he will reciprocate your feelings and make you the happiest on this planet.

5. Be happy and cheerful

Men chase women who have a smile on their faces. Who would want to achieve unemotional girls who keep everything in themselves? This is usually done by men. And while they are waiting for the manifestation of feelings and emotions from their partners.

If men meet unhappy and depressed women, they begin to blame themselves for their choice and ultimately feel guilty. They will meet with you out of pity so that you do not get worse. But in reality they will not feel deep feelings and emotions for you. What could be worse than a relationship without attachment?

Men prefer to create a distance between themselves and unhappy women. If you do not radiate positive energy, you are unlikely to be able to build a serious relationship with your companion.

6. You make your partner feel courageous

What do men in women like? That they make you feel courageous and strong. You do not have to consider yourself weaker than your partner. But at least pretend that you think so. Your boyfriend will be crazy about realizing that he is the main one in your relationship.

When a man feels courageous, it even excites him. Behave like a princess. Ask to open bottles and cans (even if you can), bring a bag, screw in a light bulb, beat meat with a hammer, beat a shelf, squeeze out wet clothes, hang curtains or something else.

Thus, your man will feel stronger mentally and physically. He will understand that you could hardly have done without him, which means that his sense of self-importance will increase. The main thing is to know the measure. And so that your man's ChSV does not go off scale.

7. Intimacy

This is one of the best benefits of relationships, according to men. Since they are fixated on this moment, if the girl is not good in bed, guys are unlikely to fall in love with you. These are women who are ready to endure anything, and they are ready to stay with a person who does not suit them in bed. But not men.

For guys, intimacy is the foundation on which they are already trying to build serious strong relationships. If your sexual temperaments in a pair match, both partners will have fun. Both from physical intimacy and from emotional. If you are ready to relax in bed, you will not have a price!

8. Intellectual knowledge

You should be able to have a conversation with your partner. You must be well-read, show curiosity and your intellect. Perhaps you do not understand what your man ate the dog. For example, you will not be able to talk to him about the internal structure of the car or about football. But in some topics you should definitely converge, be it politics, economics, entertainment, hobbies and so on.

Yes, you do not know anything about sports. But you can tell him what you are "sick" with. Are you fond of music professionally? Learn to be a marketer? Do you read psychology books in your free time? Tell your man what you know. Perhaps you will lure him with your conversation. In any case, it is useful for both to learn periodically something new.

Take the place of the narrator, not the listener, when it comes to talking with a man, because guys are attracted to women who are able to maintain intelligent conversations with them.

9. Delight your partner with culinary abilities

Nowadays, the media position women as cooks who are required to cook soups and main dishes and be constantly in the kitchen. But in fact, you must also abandon such stereotypes or imposed judgments.

If you really like to cook and compose new dishes, of course, nobody stops you. Do your favorite thing, delight your household and your man with your masterpieces. However, if you do not manage to bake at all, do not try your best and spoil the products.

Please your loved ones better by the fact that you at least get a little bit. No one will refuse the simplest omelet with vegetables after a hard working day or have breakfast with cheesecakes.

10. Men want you to be sensual

Men love it when their girls watch a movie while sharing a movie, when they are touched by cute little ones and try to pet any dog ​​that they meet on their way. That is what they expect from his partner. Do not be afraid to express your feelings.

If you can not hold back the tears from the flowers donated by a man, cry. If you want to laugh at a joke, laugh. If you want tactile contact, kiss and hug. No one is against expressing feelings, men are only for it. Since sometimes at the initial stages it is difficult for them to show their emotions, start with yourself. And after a while your partner will succumb to you.

11. Use some makeup

The key word is "a little." Men don’t like it when women go on dates with arrows in their eyes, bright shadows, powder on their cheeks, foundation on their neck, with red lipstick and eyelash extensions.They will not appreciate your three-hour efforts, as they will consider this kind of vulgar.

All you need is just your smile. This is truly the best that can be on your face. But if you’re not used to leaving home without makeup, you can use the minimum amount of funds from your cosmetic bag. How about mascara and soft lipstick? Do not put up a first date as if you were invited to the red carpet.

12. You have little contact with members of the opposite sex

Of course, each person has his acquaintances and friends. And often someone is more friends with girls, and someone with boys. And girls are no exception. Many female representatives boast a huge list of boyfriends. Moreover, they are really friends, often walk, talk, go to the cinema, go to visit each other without any sex.

But many people do not understand such friendship. Unfortunately, your man may turn out to be paranoid, unsure of himself, which means you may encounter an excessive manifestation of jealousy on his part. So you have to say goodbye to all your male friends. If you are not ready to do this, find a guy who will react positively to such your particularity. Maybe if you introduce your friends to a young man, they will also become friends?

It is better to immediately, at the initial stage of your relationship, find out how your companion relates to the fact that you are friends with men. Explain to him that you really do not claim to be the title of their lady of the heart. Maybe they will believe you.

13. Become the one you want to trust

Men want to be sure of you, they want to know that they can entrust their secrets to you. Whether it’s work or family, you shouldn’t tell anyone what your partner is telling you. Especially no need to pass on information to your friends. Who knows when and how they will be able to use it in the future?

Keep the secrets of your man to yourself. And they will definitely appreciate it, because many guys are looking for this quality in women.

14. Do not correct his behavior

If you really feel that your boyfriend’s manners are poor, talk to him in private. Never allow yourself to be accounted for in front of others: by parents or friends. It can really hit your partner’s ego.

Of course, it all depends on what you don’t like. If you do not accept foul language, inform the young man about it. He will probably be able to restrain his emotions. But if you don’t like the guy’s behavior, namely the fact that he too often stares at other girls, you are unlikely to be able to do something with him. This is a character and personality trait that, alas, cannot be changed. Either you accept it or not.

15. You give a feeling of comfort

A man is looking for a woman in the feeling for which they will be ready to see you every day - a sense of comfort. If he is comfortable next to you, you give warmth, kiss, hug, say nice words, support, smile, laugh, then it will definitely be comfortable with you.

Young people are looking for an outlet in a relationship. They want love to save them, make them happy, and make them happy. Only then will they want to build a serious, strong relationship with a member of the opposite sex.