25 rules to flirt, which you should immediately forget

There is a whole list of rules and principles that people follow, starting and maintaining a romantic relationship with someone. Most of them are simply stupid ideas imposed by society, which it is high time to abandon. Especially if you are an adult.

Play in the cold

In the past, girls were specifically taught to play immunity. Allegedly, you can make a man feel like a winner.

This is bad for two reasons. First, girls are perceived as prey. The second - men cease to perceive the word "no."

If they refused, then we must try again

Women were taught to be touchy, and men, on the contrary, were taught assertiveness. Yes, you can try again if they refused once, but to beat the closed door 8 times is crazy.

Men must take the first step

Another principle from the past, which for many years has limited girls in their possibilities. Forget about him.Now is the year 2018 and anyone can express their feelings.

“Dating Sites for Losers”

Most people think so. They miss the opportunity to make new friends because of the stupid principles of society.

A man must pick up the girl in a car

In the 21st century, no one owes anything to anyone. If a girl, being a healthy person, cannot independently get to the cafe, then she doesn’t really want to go on a date.

On dates you need to dress luxuriously

You should not come to a restaurant or a movie in your pajamas, but a suit with a dress will be superfluous. Especially if you meet in a movie theater or shopping center.

Man pays the bill

Women do not just fight for equality. So you need to pay the bill equally.

Flowers are a must for any date.

Another anachronism that wanders from generation to generation. For some reason, the most useless gift in the world is still considered a necessity. Although it’s high time to stop torturing the poor flowers.

You cannot come to a meeting without a gift

You go to talk and get to know each other, and not to bribe.

We need to support the roles of weak and strong

Everyone is used to the fact that women should be weak and romantic, and men should be strong and serious. Be yourself and forget all this nonsense.

Women must be silent and assent

It is time to leave this principle behind. It’s time for ladies to express their position and be a full-fledged person. Do not plug their mouths and infringe on their opinions.

Single mothers sign of marriage

In 2018, single mothers are equally worthy women and not at all some lepers who are worth avoiding. Girls with children, go on dates and don’t worry.

You need to wait for a third date to sleep

Yes, some men only want to put girls in bed, and sometimes it’s worth the wait before proceeding with this. Nevertheless, if you really want to, do not restrain yourself. Many strong relationships began with intimacy in the first hours of acquaintance.

Frequent dates show promiscuity

Today it’s stupid to limit yourself and reduce the number of acquaintances. You never know who will be your soulmate.

Need to meet people of identical race

This is racism. Do not listen to those who inspire you with this nonsense.

“Men remain men”

Usually this phrase is used to justify and justify any mistakes of men. At the same time, women's minor mistakes turn into tragedy and are not forgiven. It's time to tie this up.

Need to be an owner

Not necessary. Especially if you are not even a couple, but just recently started dating and came on a second date. No one will like excessive obsession and control in the early stages of a relationship.

The phrase “I can’t believe that you are one more” flatters women

In fact, this phrase speaks of the inferiority of a woman. Better to give other compliments.

Need to get married early

People are very infantile now. Even after 40. It’s better not to rush to the wedding. It is an obligation that gives the relationship absolutely nothing.

You will feel if you meet the “perfect passion”

If you use the expression “perfect passion”, then this is already bad. You never know who will be “ideal” specifically for you. We are all people with disabilities, looking for those who want to endure them.

You shouldn’t find out much at first.

Do not be shy about communication. Ask questions and find out a potential partner.

Dinner and movie are the perfect first date

This is bad and boring. Look for something more original. Something that will amuse you, discharge you, push you into communication. No movies or formal meals.

Need to spend as much time as possible together

If you are a teenager, then yes, most likely. Adults have a lot of their worries and work. Do not get too attached and reach out to each other.

If both really want, then you can.

You need to fight for a woman

Hand-to-hand fighting for a girl is romantic in the movies. In reality - it almost always looks out of place, dirty and unhealthy.

Deception and silence is a great way to intrigue

In fact, this is a great way to ruin everything. Be honest. Be yourself.