Getting a divorce is not as easy as many people think. Many unhappy men who want their relationship to end cannot part with their wives for various reasons. Many factors stop them, including legal issues, money, feelings, children and other things. That is why, at present, many unhappy men prefer to be married rather than abandon it.

1. Alimony

Alimony is one of the main reasons why career-oriented men do not want to leave their wives. A divorce will mean that they must be liable to the court, which may ultimately undermine their current financial situation.

2. Public Recognition

Many people simply do not want to leave their wife for fear of losing their social recognition. In our society, men who leave their families are condemned. In addition, the girls are wary of divorced young people, since it seems to them that the problem in marriage was precisely in the man. So, for a new family, he is not suitable.

3. Wonderful father

Some men simply do not want to see their children miserable because of a divorce. If young people understand that their children are too attached to their father, then they are unlikely to ever leave their mother. Maybe only at their conscious age, when it will be much easier for them to accept the departure of the father from the family.

4. Son or daughter provide for the family

This item is relevant when it comes to adult children.Many are well equipped their lives and succeed in the workplace. Parents are happy with their career growth, because their children provide for their families by periodically sending money. And it is precisely this reason (perhaps quite self-serving) that can become the reason why a man remains with his unloved wife.

5. Religious reasons

Many people are bound to God by the oaths they made in the church, and by religious obligations that prevent them from leaving their wives. They would rather stick to the dogma of the church, rather than parting with their wife for their own pleasure.

6. Self-doubt

Some men live with women for a long time and do not leave them just because they understand that they are unlikely to be loved by anyone else. They live in marriage for many years, because they realize that only their wives can accept their shortcomings. Therefore, between loneliness and an unloved woman, young people choose the latter.

7. A sense of stability in life

Some unhappy people believe that they should remain married only because divorce can adversely affect their quality of life. Stability in life is very important for them, and they feel more confident in marriage. Men simply understand that they do not want an independent life, where there is inconstancy and instability in everything.

8. Loss of connection with children

In addition to worrying about the happiness and fate of children, some men simply do not want to leave their wife because they feel that they will miss their children after this happens. They prefer to live with an unloved wife, but often communicate with a child than to dissolve a marriage and not see a child for years.

9. Divorce proceedings are too expensive

Some men who are in love with another woman simply do not want to leave their wife, because they believe that divorce will be too expensive (due to state fees and other problems). Or because a new girl may require more money than a wife. Such young people are so callous that they live in a marriage without love just because they care about their financial situation.

10. Too much effort

Besides the fact that divorce is too expensive, the divorce process also requires too much effort. It is necessary to visit the courts, seek a lawyer, write various statements. All such legal obligations complicate divorce. And many men do not want to experience such a headache, so they just live on with their wife.

11. Good relations with relatives of the wife

Some men are so attached to their wife’s relatives that they would prefer not to part with their woman simply because divorce could mean the end of a relationship with her parents. Situations are different. But sometimes young people get much more love from their wife’s mother than from their own. Or a man did grow up in an orphanage in childhood. But in this situation one thing is clear: love for relatives of a wife is more than hatred for their woman.

12. Respect for your woman

Some men may not really love their wife, but are respected as a person. And they understand that it is the husband who is the support for the whole family, especially for the girl. Therefore, if a divorce occurs, in the first place it is the wife who will not be able to endure such a turn of events.

Men, of course, can divorce their wife, but prefer not to, because a divorce can mentally destroy a woman whom they once loved so much.

13. Good in bed

Some men want their wives to give them a divorce, but on the other hand, they do not want it because women are actually pretty. They look after their body, work hard in the gym, eat only healthy foods. Men understand that feelings in their union are completely gone, but physical needs still need to be satisfied.

14. Availability of support

Some men believe that leaving a wife will rob them of the support that every person needs.Indeed, in a relationship, partners become each other's best friends. They are given one hundred percent, care and help to survive difficult life situations. And when there is no person next to a man who could support him, he suffers greatly from his decision to divorce.

15. Selfish reasons

Finally, as you know, there are those men who simply do not want to part with their wives because of the financial or any other support they provide them. Maybe a woman holds a good position and has good connections, which her man sometimes uses?

Or the husband simply enjoys the money that their wife receives, and only because of this does not want a divorce, because he will stop the flow of money.

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